By Beth Mccain and Lee McCain
Wouldn’t it be great to be able to pick the relationships that you want in this life? No more having romantic problems or problems with friends but just the end all be all kind of relationship that makes you joyous to wake up in the morning. Each co-worker seems to be on your side and the people who surround you are exactly what you had always hoped for. This is possible through the Law of Attraction but it will take some thought changes on your part; but don’t you think it would be worth it? To do just a little change of your own mental patterns and then be able to eliminate the relationship dramas? We’re going to tell you how to build this kind of a relationship through the LOA.
When using the Law of Attraction for relationships it is important to make a list of all the qualities that you would like in the relationship. If it is a soul mate relationship you want then write the list of qualities that best describe who you would be happy with. The same goes for any kind of relationship that you desire. Create that person on a piece of paper. Leave what they look like out of it for the moment and just dwell on what it would be like if someone of all the specifications you listed existed. Make sure not to build a person who already exists. If you like a certain someone and they possess everything that you have decided that you want in a person, the Universe will align you with them if they match the full specification.
The Universe is great at taking the vibrations of what you want (or don’t want depending on your focus) and giving you what you want or better. That someone that you want to be with, the specific someone, may not be who you think they are but the Universe knows and will abide by what you focus on within yourself.
Now, once you have made your list and know what you want, start building an image of what you would do with this person and make sure to include all the qualities for your ideal relationship. Maybe you see traveling and enjoying each other’s company at dinner but whatever it is be sure to create an image that you can really get into. Feel it, see it, hear it, taste it, use all your senses and experience it as if it is happening at this very moment. This is an important point because you are building, at this very moment, what you want to happen. If you create it in your mind and you visualize it in the future then the Universe picks up your vibrations and in the future it will stay. But if you envision ‘in the now’ the Universe picks up the ‘now’ vibrations and soon it becomes the present.
As you noticed we left out thoughts of what they may look like physically. You can have a sketchy image, maybe color of hair and eyes but leave the rest to the Universe. It gives the Universe much more room to find what you are looking for. If you create this exact image of what someone will look like and then attach all the qualities as well then you have limited the Universe as to the looks and qualities of this person and it may take a longer time to align with your creation but if you give a general look and the exact qualities you will find the Universe has many more options to pick from and it may come that much easier.
Now that you have your image and you are visualizing daily it is important to enjoy the process of it coming to you. Don’t sit around and wait; keep living life expecting and knowing this person is coming into your life very soon. Sitting around and creating impatience about relationships is going to create vibrations of more to be impatient for. Take action and be grateful for each date and/or relationship that comes in between what it is that you desire.
Each person who enters your life is someone helping you become more aligned to your visualization, whether you learn from others what you don’t want. As time goes by you will find that each person you meet will begin to possess more and more qualities of what you want. That is the Universe showing you that it is working on your desire as long as you keep the visualizing up and as long as you continue to be grateful for the life you are leading at this very moment.
If you dwell on how bad past relationships were or worry about not getting what you want you will be creating just that. Sometimes we build a wonderful visualization and we then pull it apart through our own thoughts of past relationships. The Universe brings to you what you most focus on and if you only focus on what you don’t want in relationship more than what you do want then you will have the don’t want relationships.
Trust and expect and live life joyously and you will find that the person you created will come into your life and that is when you take action for them to be a part of your life. Sometimes, where you least expect it, they will be. It can happen through any means when you trust and expect and know that the Universe is bringing you just what you desire through the Law of Attraction.
Beth and Lee McCain are two of the most prolific authors on the subject of the Law of Attraction, also known as The Secret. In addition to three books they have co-authored on the Law of Attraction, the happily married couple host a popular nationally syndicated weekly radio show called Radio LOA, publish the only national LOA magazine, The Indicator, and teach the principles of the Law of Attraction at gatherings and seminars around the world. They make their home in Oregon’s lush Alsea Valley. You are invited to visit http://www.bethandleemccain.com for more Law of Attraction information and free study materials.
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